there are 2 bellas there is one dead one in pleasantview,(where you can get in SimPe) and a clone of bella in strange town.
thats why ST(ST=Strangetown) bella has no memory or family she simply just another NPC Townie!
you can get the real bella by doing what Zythe had posted earlier which is below
Zythes post:
Pleasantview Bella tutorial
That's fine, I love explaining this.
1) Download SimPE from
http://sims.ambertation.de/2) Run SimPE once you've installed it
3) Go to Plugins and choose "Neighbourhood Browser"
4) Select "Pleasantview"
5) Under Flietypes choose "Neighborhood/Memory"
6) Choose "Neighbourhood/Memory" again under packed file
7) Let the list of wants, fears and sims run through completely
8) Choose "plugin view" along the bottom row of tabs
9) Choose Bella Goth along the left list of sims
10) Select any memories which say "I Am Dead" and press delete on the right for each one
11) Choose "commit"
12) File>Save
13) Close SimPE
13) Run The Sims 2
14) Load up Pleasantview and any household of your choice (but the Goth house makes most sense)
15) Open the cheat box by holding ctrl+shift+c
16) Type in "boolprop testingcheatsenabled true" and press enter
17) Shift+click a sim and choose Spawn then Tombstone of L and D
18) Type "boolprop testingcheatsenabled false" in the cheat box
19) Click the tombstone and choose "Add Neighbour to Family"
20) Keep pressing "more" untill you see "Bella" and choose that
21) Bella is now a playable character
22) Go into buy mode and delete the tombstone
23) Now live out your soap opera as Bella and destroy Mortimer's love life with Dina Caliente whilst she shocks Pleasantview with the revelation that she is alive after all!